Session 08: Healthy Relationships | Healthy Community Living

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Healthy Relationships


“One of the biggest things I have learned having a disability and being in a relationship, is you really have to be yourself.”

– Leanne Beers, Disability Relationships Specialist and Parent with a Disability

 





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Introduction

  • Relationships are connections between people
  • Relationships may be:
    • Close connections, such as between a parent and a child
    • Less close, such as between neighbors or community members
    • Simple, challenging, short term or long term
  • Relationships with other people are important for both your health and well-being
  • People you have relationships with may help you feel less isolated and provide you support in a variety of ways throughout your life
  • Relationships may enrich your life and help you feel more connected to the world around you
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Know Yourself

  • We may have relationships with family, friends, providers, personal assistance or other individuals in the community
  • Relationships may be challenging
  • Learning how to have successful relationships is an ongoing process
  • One way to learn more about yourself and your relationships is to explore your likes and dislikes as an individual and in your relationships with other people
  • Learning about your relationship style may help you establish boundaries and be more successful in relationships
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Close Relationships

Close relationships may be with people who you:

  • See on a daily or weekly basis
  • Share limited financial information with
  • Share gifts with
  • Invite to life events
  • Invite or let into your home
  • Do chores or have meals with
  • Talk to about big life choices
  • Talk to about personal details, including health information
  • Can talk to if you are not feeling well
  • Can call in an emergency or for other support
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Romantic Relationships

  • Dating is a way to get to know someone that you do not know well
  • Dating people is usually in order to find a long-term partner or spouse
  • Not everyone you date will be a good match or long term relationship
  • Communicating and spending time together may help you decide if someone has values and features that would make a good partner for you
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Community Members

  • Relationships with people in your community can vary
  • You may have a different relationship with community members than close friends, family and partners
  • Some might be complete strangers, while others you might see often but know very little about
  • You only share information with these people that is related to what you are doing with them
  • You do not usually share personal space or personal information with these people
  • You might say “Hello” to these people and be pleasant with them, but otherwise might limit how much you communicate
  • They usually should not be making decisions for you, and may not even be in a position to give advice


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